Love For Sale

Webber1: Hey it’s Webber1 haven’t seen you online for a while.
Angry Asian Cookie: Hello Happy Wednesday, I’ve been commuting from NY, DC and CA.
Webber1: You still don’t want to go out on a date with me?
Angry Asian Cookie: No Webber1; We can chat and say hi.
But I shared my opinion about this issue, and it’s definite.
Webber1: how about sex then– oral – anal – vaginal
Angry Asian Cookie: you didn’t get the message, did you? I tried to be polite, and diplomatic but I see it has no effect on you.
Webber1: How about an Asian Massage. I can give you a green card if you’re sweet
Angry Asian Cookie: Good bye.

Webber1 BLOCKED and DELETED from IM contacts

RedDig: thanks for adding me to your IM buddies, and the release of your personal email address
Angry Asian Cookie: You’re welcome, happy Monday to you.
RedDig: What are your plans for tonight?
Angry Asian Cookie: Relaxting at home; nothing much – I had a busy day
Angry Asian Cookie: sorry typo “Relaxing”.
RedDig: Oh, not to worry Asians who fell from the boat make lots of typos, I’m getting accustom to it.
Angry Asian Cookie: Pardon me?
RedDig: Yes, when you fell of the boat and came here illegally it must have been so hard for you to learn the language. And you’ve been here how long? It must have taken you at least 15 years, correct?
Angry Asian Cookie: I have an issue with your comment about falling of the boat. That’s an insult for me, and other individuals who came to the US for valid reasons with legal consent.
RedDig: but isn’t that why you’re on this dating site? To get a green card? I’m can help, if you live up to the Asian traits of great *** and **** and ****
Angry Asian Cookie: I want to set the record straight, however it’s a waste of my effort. Good Bye; good luck with your search; I now understand why you’ve been looking for a partner for over 3 years.

RedDig BLOCKED and DELETED from IM contacts.


Carl_3: you’re quite communicative, that’s pleasant. I like our chats thus far.
Angry Asian Cookie: Thanks for the kind compliments
Carl_3: I know you Asian girls value [appreciate] money, a car and houses a lot. As a matter of fact, I think Asian women are the most realistic creatures on this planet with selecting men based on credit ratings, income and status. How much do you make annual? I think I’ll apply some Asian Philosophy here J to me Asians have a great reputation.
Angry Asian Cookie: Pardon me????? You’re making jokes - correct?
Carl_3: Of Course not, be proud of your reputation - btw I make 167 K a year and I have a BMW. Girl: you’re so sexy it’s worth every penny.
Angry Asian Cookie: I’m still digesting your comments. Where along the road of communication did I give you the impression that I selected you [to explore a possible friendship] based on your financial status????
Angry Asian Cookie: You know what never mind.
Carl_3: you didn’t, it’s an assumption. I never met an Asian woman who isn’t out hunting for money and a White Sugar daddy.
Angry Asian Cookie: Yes of course because we allure towards white men because they all have small genitals, and an even smaller brain. Hey, continue to express your stereo types, I’m sure you’ll make some great friends along your journey. Good Bye.

Carl_3 BLOCKED and DELETED from IM Contacts.




All I can say is that as an European Asian Woman, I’m astonished with the oblivious stigmas individuals impose on others with audacity, and without valid data. The last conversation I had, inspired me to write an author who was recently interviewed by the Washington Post. I made some calls to Dr. H. and I got David’s email address.

This is a part of my letter to David.

As a busy professional online dating is my default dating resource. And after
some sad, funny, and hilarious experiences I've decided to blog my conversations
with individuals and/or experiences. In the DC area dating with credentials such
as mine, intimidates men [PhD; successful; independent; sexy *smile*].
I
believe that my date[s] should be equally yoked, and have relevant parallels
with my own mind of quality. In addition I'm fighting a stigma that Asian
American women manifested in at least this Metro area. Via a popular online
dating site I received over 3000 hits needless to say I had to re-post a new
profile due to vulgar, non-realistic responses and similar expectations.
Stigmas were demonstrated via comments as: Are you looking for green card?
Did you fall of the boat recently; is it true that Asian women enjoy performing
oral sex?
.
The disparities between European Asians, African Americans,
American Asians, and Caucasians are in my modest opinion huge. Most
conversations remain superficial, display of interest has a random correlation
with how much money I make, what type of car I drive, what type of house I
purchased, and of course no real interest in what moves my spirit and/or my
mind. I believe we do live in a decade were we women are considered equally
yoked; however it intimidates most men especially when we make more money. The
men I've been dating recently I selected because of similar interests most of
them are high level professionals but I most emphasize that it was not an
assessment criteria. For the record: I don't date several men at the same time,
but after a lack of interest I would move on to explore other
individuals.

As an Asian European I'm stunned that an element such
as financial security appears to be a dominant factor as we assess our potential
partners. In addition: when men discover in later stage of dating that you are educated, and financially healthy, their manhood machismo instantly manifests/swift itself in different areas of the relationship or personality traits.

Condemning comments that were made are regarding money and
education:
Oh, you're Asian of course you have a degree; Asian women are
gold diggers even when they make a lot of money. What connected us prior to
revealing status, income and education becomes irrelevant. The display of such
disrespect raise my eyebrows, and that's an understatement.

My point to David was that we Asian women seemed to be doomed: we’re either considered intelligent money hunters or we’re uneducated sex slaves looking for a Sugar Dad.

I don’t fit in the box that was designed by ignorant people, but sometimes I wish I could live up to this image, and execute opportunistic behavior and selfishness. I’ll get myself a fat, ugly old retired white man with a small genitals; a hair piece; a million dollar account, and a Ferrari.

Enjoy JLo's video: "My love don't cost a thing"

Hugzzz Dahlings,


angryasiancookie.in.dc@gmail.com