Update!

It's been awhile that I've been posting messages on my blog for several reasons:

• all my laptops,  and PCs either crashed, died or malfunctioned;
• my efforts to repair a fairly new laptop was journey to hell - thanks Gateway;
• I was dealing with multiple challenges at the same time

Dating Up date

    Persian

Lots has happened. After my reunion with Persian, that same weekend I didn't contact him. I can tell you this - I had his business card in my hand on Saturday and Sunday but didn't had the guts to pick up the phone and dial his number. I consulted my friends Mos, Camy, and Dr. H and all advised me to call him.  I felt confused after our kiss and my feelings for King. 

On Monday I decided to call Persian. Before even picking up the phone, I practiced what I would say  when he would pick up the phone. It was so pathetic that I even wrote down what I intended to say. I almost felt as a high school girl. When I finally had the guts to call' I was redirected to his voice mail. I'm ashamed to tell but I hang up the phone. ohh.. it was  sooooooo girlie and immature. 

The second time around, I managed to leave him a message:

Hey Persian - this is Angry Asian Cookie. As promised I would give you a buzz. I hope you had a fabulous weekend and I look forward to hear all about it. Please do give me a call back after retrieving my message.

After five  very, very long minutes, my cell rang:

Persian: So you finally decided to pick up the phone and give me a call?

Angryasiancookie: Hey Persian ... good to hear from you.. sorry Persian that it took me so long  to get back at you.

Persian: I'm glad you did. It's good to hear your voice - it compliments the image that I have of us kissing...

Angryasiancookie: uhhh. well uhmmm ehhh..

Persian:[chuckles] Are you blushing? and looking for words..? Amazing - you're never without a wit response.. you look cute when you blush

Angryasiancookie:  uhhh well uhhh I'm not blushing..

Persian: sure you're not.. 

Angryasiancookie: can we change the subject to your weekend??!! How was your weekend?

Persian: My weekend was great; I was expecting your call though..I had a birthday party; danced; coached my  volleyball team to the qualifications. And you? Did you think about me ?

Angryasiancookie: oh, that sounds like a great weekend...yes, I thought of you briefly.. [ahh why did I say that?!!]

Persian: briefly? Oh that's my ego dropping on the floor....

Angryasiancookie: you're silly 

Persian: that indicates that you and I should spend more time together. Do you want to grab a coffee later on today?

Angryasiancookie: I'm at Busboys... as we speak

Persian: I can be there in 10 

Angryasiancookie: ohh no - don't stress your schedule let's meet another time

Persian: I want to seize the moment and kiss you.

Angryaasiancookie: but I'm not dressed to meet you.

Persian: good-  no clothes are necessary,  but hmmm you created a killing field of men out there didn't you?  [chuckles]

Angryasiancookie: you're nuts - I meant I'm wearing my professional and boring attire..

Persian: Baby .. with or without clothes it's you I'll see. Be here in 10 

Persian hung up the phone. 

Persian and  I met and we did kiss again. I felt awkward and yet blissful. I thought about King Then I told Persian about King and my developing feelings for him. I also shared my growing friendship with DD. Persian responded with: " Angryasiancookie: I don't see a ring on your finger but do admire your honesty. Let's take it one step at the time". I have no intention to lose contact with you and I want us to connect and be close friends.".

When we left the establishment I was still a bit confused but I smiled all day.

Mos responded - after I shared my  Persian experience -:"Maybe this is karma, and should you stay in DC".  Persian and I continued to see each other; about that later. 

  King

Although King and I don't talk on a daily base like DD and I. When we talk it seems as if I'm talking to myself, like as twin souls. The engaging conversations are as warm streaming water caressing my body; his voice is soothing; our souls simply connect.  Our relationship approach is simultaneous which makes our interaction smooth and understanding. I did tell him what happened with Persian.  He responded that he wants to visit me, and we should anticipate on my relocation.  When I was robbed last week - about that later- he was livid and so concerned. He checked in on  me the whole evening. It was so endearing while I'm writing this piece he's in Vegas at a marathon and trying to assure me that I will never have to be afraid again when he's there to protect me. Now how can I not melt for that??? 

DD

DD and I speak almost every day. He writes just like me and we started writing jointly on a children's book. He's so sweet, creative, caring and intelligent. How can I not like him?

Books and other Updates

 My poetry is scheduled to be published within two weeks. When I was on the radio with Alan Currie, I met Bennie Randall on the live chat of the show. Bennie and I started to communicate and I shared some of my poetry. Bennie gave me some great advice regarding the publishing of my books.  I would recommend you to take a look at  www.bennierandall.com.

He has interesting material posted on the site.

Ton

My friend Ton passed last week. I was fortunate to celebrate his life in Milan. He will always be my Angel. 

Virgo

Virgo and I never met but we do chat and talk on the phone a lot. The last few times he insists that we should meet but to be quite honest with you, I have my hands full with DD, King and Persian. Virgo is cool though.

Fitness Guru 

I have kept my distance with Fitness Guru. Primarily because he's too nice and we simply are no match. He once mentioned I was clueless regarding men; and I was like a man in woman's body.In addition I felt as if he felt some resent after we met - mentioned that he had to jump through hoops to see me that one time. I feel bad about that, but I cannot help my feelings. In fact I don't feel any connection at all other then a platonic friendship. He called the other day after sending me a text.  When he mentioned he was staring at a picture of my lips and how they would fit his ...... I tuned off, when he mentioned he was extremely excited, I had to end the conversation. It's hard for me to deal with an awkward moment as this one. 

Laptops, Pcs; Ipods

All my laptops and my desktops died at the same time. My efforts to get them fixed were unsuccessful. After my experiences with the customers service of Dell and Gateway, I decided to buy a new Mac. And I love my Mac!

I'll never write about my previous marriage or my divorce and I'll keep it that way. One thing though: I had an apple Ipod and I had bought one for my popper ex as well. After the divorce I found out he had switched my Ipod for a fake version and sold mine. It was not a big deal, if it made the popper happy so be it. With my Mac I bought both me and Vlindertje an Ipod. I'm struggling with the transition of data from my old tops and desk soon I'll be able to listen to my music again. 

I'll keep you posted now I'm back online!

Hugzzz Dahlings,


angryasiancookie.in.dc@gmail.com

It's Raining Men

Today my girls, and I are hanging out @Busboysandpoets again. Their appetizers are well proportionate, just enough to get a nice taste of the flavor. Their average crowd is pleasant, urban, stylish, and their music selection is great. The bookstore has a great selection which includes local artists. Every time I take a different appetizer and surprise myself, but with every order I place – I’ll take a chai. I’m seeking her advice on the following potential candidates:

*Camera
Last night after my friends and I all went to bed, I placed phone call to * Camera. Camera an is individual who can hold a substantial conversation by phone and chat. He’s great father, and had world exposure. In addition he’s a Leo... and by now you have already figured it out that Leo’s and I understand each other [with the exception of JCW].
After my lunch and chill time, *Camera and I will see a movie. My thing with Camera is that he’s 5”8 and I’m 5”9. I have a boot fetish and wear no flat shoes. This might be a very interesting date.
In the 90s we had comedy duo “Mini and Maxi” they were ridiculous together. For some reason I prefer men to be taller then 6”0 and heavy or stocky build a false feeling of security is created by these criteria. Camera has a lean body frame in addition to the feet factor but maybe just maybe, I might like him enough to be just friends.

*King
Three weeks ago a was introduced to *King He’s a Kappa brother of another acquaintance and when he popped into town, he joined us clubbing, He and I started taking, and I was surprised how much we had in common. We danced Salsa for a while but he was a little bit under the water and sleepy. The next morning *King would fly back to CA. *King is a Leo and shares the same values as myself regarding family life. He’s so much in love with his baby girl, and has sole custody over her. He manages his busy professional life and his family life so well – I admire him for that. We did exchange contact information, and last week I had sent him a Valentines card and he responded with a sweet note back. King is 6”2, heavy build, intelligent and sweet.
He does live in CA… and long distance relationships are challenging... but we’ll see. The forecast is promising . I do feel very connected to him because he seems a little bit dangerous… about that later.

*Virgo.
Virgo and I have been communication and we have several commodities. He’s intelligent, funny, and communicative but he’s a Virgo and his facial features are less appealing to me then the other persons I’ve met. We tried to hook up at the Ritz Carlton, the Java House at least two times but every time something comes up where either he or I have to cancel our date. He’ll be out on travel, but we want to grab a latte together soon.
Looking at our forecast. I think I might over come the facial disparities – I’m not sure but we’ll see. The Virgo Factor is giving me more reason to doubt if we could approach a blissful friendship beyond platonic and spiritual.



Florida

Florida is a free spirit. There is no other way of explaining is character traits, he’s fun to talk to and he makes me smile. He’s a Sagittarius and we do get each other, there are some obstacles though: 1. he lives in Florida; he’s a little bit older then my projected age limit; he belongs to a race I never dated [Caucasian] I think Internet dating is great to start new friendships that are strictly platonic or spiritual. Florida and I get each other but there’s strong forecast that we will stick to a spiritual friendship.

From all the people who contacted me I think these guys are at least friendship potential.
If you have some advice for me, email me at angryasiancookie.in.dc@gmail.com

Well Dahlings, I’m off for my chai and enjoy a Happy Happy Saturday

Hugzzz Dahlings,


angryasiancookie.in.dc@gmail.com