Underaged and Friends with Benefits

Ok check this scenario:  

Grown man late 30's, has an almost 16 years old cousin who text him all day with foolish text messages, but some of the message are somewhat provocative. To give an example: he refers to her as "my cutie kat", she confides she has a crush on him, she wants to live with him, he is not against it but wants her parents approval. 

Prior to these facts, I teased this individual with his "crush" on Miley Cyrus aka Hannah Montana.  He liked a song and after that I teased him and bumped him Miley's #1 fan.  He responded that by time she's 21 she thinks he's too old.  I think if he had said ; gosh noo... a 16 year old girl... but his response was that he wouldn't be interested because she might fall out of love with him due to the age difference not because he's not attracted to underaged  girls. 

Am I too critical?

Ok, Second scenario:  Individual was once involved with a girl and they were "unofficial" for a year. Unofficial means friends with benefits because she was not his girlfriend.  The ex calls him before 9 am in the morning, late at night, for hours this prior to her nasty separation. According to him they're are just friends and that they broke up before even though they were not official, because they were always fighting. I'm not saying you cannot be friends with your ex, but this ex wasn't an ex. This was a friend with benefits, plus  the ex told her soon to be ex husband that this individual and her were never an item leading him to think that the individual is gay. Apparently the ex has, according to her own inner circle,  problems with separating fantasy and lies from the truth.  Now I'm I too critical to think that based on these facts, that there is a possibility that there's more going on between the ex aka former friend with benefits and the individual?

Ok I need your advise on this.......

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