Underaged part II

Ok, I had that conversation with the individual about the text messages and his responses. So he showed me his text responses to his cousin. I must say that in the context it cleared my conscience somewhat. Then he said he would call the parents to inform them that the  girl text him so often. In addition he would talk to the girl and explain to her why it's inappropriate to have that type and frequency of text.  

Second scenario follow up:  individual cleared up the air by explaining the situation of the ex who's not an ex.  He's  the kind of person who would offer a shoulder to cry on so I guess after they were together seven years ago, they stayed friends and they are randomly having conversations about her current situation. Well,  we'll see what will happen. 

I heard from an astrologist that mercury is on his rebound, that indicates that we are reflecting more on our past and current relationships.  That made more sense to me why I've been so critical the last two days :( ....

Anyone noticed that they were evaluating or assessing current and past relationships last two days? 

Hugzzz Dahlings,


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Underaged and Friends with Benefits

Ok check this scenario:  

Grown man late 30's, has an almost 16 years old cousin who text him all day with foolish text messages, but some of the message are somewhat provocative. To give an example: he refers to her as "my cutie kat", she confides she has a crush on him, she wants to live with him, he is not against it but wants her parents approval. 

Prior to these facts, I teased this individual with his "crush" on Miley Cyrus aka Hannah Montana.  He liked a song and after that I teased him and bumped him Miley's #1 fan.  He responded that by time she's 21 she thinks he's too old.  I think if he had said ; gosh noo... a 16 year old girl... but his response was that he wouldn't be interested because she might fall out of love with him due to the age difference not because he's not attracted to underaged  girls. 

Am I too critical?

Ok, Second scenario:  Individual was once involved with a girl and they were "unofficial" for a year. Unofficial means friends with benefits because she was not his girlfriend.  The ex calls him before 9 am in the morning, late at night, for hours this prior to her nasty separation. According to him they're are just friends and that they broke up before even though they were not official, because they were always fighting. I'm not saying you cannot be friends with your ex, but this ex wasn't an ex. This was a friend with benefits, plus  the ex told her soon to be ex husband that this individual and her were never an item leading him to think that the individual is gay. Apparently the ex has, according to her own inner circle,  problems with separating fantasy and lies from the truth.  Now I'm I too critical to think that based on these facts, that there is a possibility that there's more going on between the ex aka former friend with benefits and the individual?

Ok I need your advise on this.......

Hugzzz Dahlings,


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head

Received a reminder from one of my friends regarding a wedding ceremony we're suppose to attend SATURDAY!!!!  

Gosh, I don't know about you but a girl needs time to choose her dress, coordinate the accessories, schedule an appointment with my hair stylist, and nail artist. Make arrangements for the babies..... 

Men are simply not thinking to give a girl a heads up. They think "head down" ... I get it .... gosh I have two days to make sure I look fabulous...... how fair is that???????!!!!

Hugzzz Dahlings,


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Labor day weekend

My Maman passed last week and unexpectedly I became the new mother of her baby M.

 M. is four years old, and flew to the US on Friday. She's adorable but doesn't understand a word English.  So far so good, I miss my Maman more than I can express but having  M. here makes up a lot of my sadness and pain.  This weekend I had a back to school BBQ to attend.  Bud had other plans, so I decide to invite one of my best friends to join me. The host was my former PI at my grant via Howard University.  It started at 4 PM but G picked me up at 7:45 PM and I was pissed about that. On top of that we got stuck in traffic and when I called  the host at 9 PM the BBQ was already over. Although I was livid with my friend G. we still managed to have a good time eating ice cream and have dinner at a new restaurant in Montgomery County. 

Next day M., Vlindertje and I went for a stroll and at night Bud and I  had dinner at a Jamaican restaurant. The next day Bud and I attended a cool B-day party and a BBQ and had Jamaican food again. It seems that the time is too short when Bud and I hang out. 

Today we'll hang out again with the babies lol and I do hope you have a great time today as well. 

Hugzzz Dahlings,


angryasiancookie.in.dc@gmail.com